Damned if You Do, Damned if You Don’t
I have received numerous emails asking me what I think about the PR Blackout, the “mommy blogger” dramasodes, etc. To be quite honest, I ignore these emails because frankly, it’s NONE of my business. What people do with their blog is their own business, not mine but here is all I’m gonna say about it.
It’s so childish, all of it, and I don’t want to have anything to do with folks talking ugly towards me or others. I surround myself with people who love me and support me and have no time in my life to worry about that nonsense. You should too. I have learned online and off, that it’s best to worry about yourself and your family. Nothing else matters.
You’ll never win because there will always be someone who has nothing better to do that criticize others. You’re damned if you do, damned if you don’t.
Be yourself, be authentic, and don’t let anyone make you feel like you or your blog should be something else. Write what you want, Read what you want.
Amen!
Mommie Daze´s last blog ..Sometimes Spilled Milk Really Does Make You Want to Cry
Well said! Thank you!
Great post. Well said. When it comes to reading blogs, just like in life, we all have different tastes, thus there is plenty of room for all different kinds of blogs. Whether you are a diaryist or expert in product reviewss, hot deals or coupons, the websites that are genuine, helpful, or resourceful will succeed. There are people and readers that want news and opinions on commercial content and those that prefer to read the entertainment of a blogger who records their thoughts, feelings, and experience with Motherhood. To each is own. Just my opinion.
See, we are long lost sisters cause I just wrote the same darn thing! People need to get over themselves, quoting others…why give it the energy ya know!
Andrea @ Mommy Snacks.net´s last blog ..The Rule Book on Blogging
Well said! I agree wholeheartedly.
Teresa Jackson´s last blog ..mamalingo: @csyvarner haven’t u had that phone for a while? LOL
Preach it sister!!! Thanks for stating the very obvious!!!
Erin
Erin from $5 Dinners´s last blog ..Summer Squash Pasta Salad
Amen Sista!!!
I completely agree with all that you said!! Just wish more would say it and mean it:) Luv ya…:)
Dr. Mommy´s last blog ..No More Battles With Math
So true.
So true and yet how do I get caught up in some drama of friends? I am 39 and do my best to smile and have fun. And my blogs, yes, I must always remember to just do/write what I want….am looking forward to meeting in Chicago!
All this drama feels like high school all over again! Who knew the blogosphere was so dramatic? Thank you for posting this and I’m glad I am not part of any of this, too! :)
Melissa´s last blog ..FREE Issue of Cooking Pleasures Magazine
Thank you for the obvious. I’m not into drama either, but actually needed a kick in the pants to get the posts out that I’ve been wanting to write, and trying to find the time to do it!
Cindi´s last blog ..Look For Me On The Veranda August 10-16 – I’ll Be Sipping Iced Tea
I’ve missed it all. I’m not a drama mama blogger I guess.
But….I agree.
Flee the ones who gripe! Do your own thing! That’s the beauty of a blog! Duh!
get a bunch of women together (even in cyberspace), no matter the age, theres bound to be some drama! sad but true!
As long as what you write isn’t any more lies about my boyfriend, yo.
I must be out of the loop. I am so confused.
You tell ‘em sister! Great post!
don’t know what you hip bloggers are talking about but….
YOU GO LORI!!!!
tell’em like it is
I’m so thankful for my 9 loyal readers…
Iva @ Horizontal Yo-Yo´s last blog ..Not a Gym Rat – But Close
what did I miss?
wunderwoman´s last blog ..I’n NOT gonna do it……
Lori, I have no idea what you’re referring to and I’m glad I don’t!
Truer words were never spoken. You’ve got your priorities right! :)
Lori,
I’ve always admired you – well said. I actually have no idea what you’re talking about in terms of the PR blackout but the mom blog drama sure is there. I’m doing like you – sticking to those that make me feel good and add to my life not take away from.
I still do need to call you but seeing that I’ll see you in Chicago soon I’ll chat then. Can’t wait to meet you.
That’s what I say too, be and let be, AMEN SISTER
Jerri Ann Reason´s last blog ..Slim Perfect- I just can’t get enough of them
Good post! To each their own.
I however, hate the term “PR Blackout” because it just sounds so offensive and negative.
Will I see you at BlogHer?
Dana´s last blog ..In Which I Leave My Blog Bubble For a Moment
I hear you! I can’t stand the drama IRL. I definitely don’t want any parts of it here!
Angie´s last blog ..Winner: $50GC to 1800Flowers.com
I agree. I like to focus on the positives. There is so much good in the blogosphere. I don’t want to give all that crap attention.
Janice (5 Minutes for Mom)´s last blog ..Tackle It Tuesday — Post-BlogHer Catch-Up
Very nicely said, Lori. You’ve been a blogger I’ve admired and have been proud of since I got involved in the blogosphere. Hoping I follow your example.
Mary@Everyday Baby Steps´s last blog ..Quick Summer Hair Care Tips