HELL NO! Of course they don’t because cheating men are bastards, however, there a couple of exceptions that could possible prevent cheaters from straying. As promised to my twitter friends, I said I would explain the latter and that’s why I’m here. Before I do though, I’d like to say that I’m writing this because of an article written at MomLogic who by the way WON’T publish my comment!
Call it cave man times or whatever you want but here it goes…….
I’ve said this before but I’m gonna say it again since I have so many new readers. I knew a lady once that was married for many years until she found out that he was cheating on her. They were a lovely family, hard working, and she was a beautiful woman. But there were intimacy issues…no intimacy. She never felt like it because she was too tired, etc…all the normal women excuses. They never had meaningful conversations…yada, yada, yada. So they split and things moved on. One day, I was at her house watching her fold laundry when she held up these g-string panties. She told me that ever since the divorce, she started buying these sexy things, was going out dancing, etc. I asked her if she had ever wore those for him and why they didn’t go dancing….she just said she didn’t know why. All I could think about was maybe if she had wore that sexy lingerie, played under the covers a little more, and went out dancing with her man, that she’d still have him. Not always the case I realize but could have changed some things possibly.
UH OH! I can see you ladies getting MAD! I’m not saying it’s all the women’s fault. Just sayin’ that– why would a man want to get the hots over a woman who’s in sweats, unbrushed hair, or who is SO tired or complains daily . Fix yourselves up every day…for crying out loud, it only takes a few minutes. Don’t gripe at him for stupid crap as soon as he walks through the door from work. Make him want you so that he doesn’t go hunting for those unfulfilled needs elsewhere.
I’ve learned that the wife often sets the tone of the atmosphere for the day and in the marriage. If you welcome your husband home in a good mood and clean house, you’re more likely to have a happy day which helps for a happy marriage.
If you hand him the baby and starting griping as soon as he walks through the door, the day is shot to hell, everyone’s in a bad mood, which leads to unhappy marriages.
FOR YOU RELIGIOUS ONES THAT ARE NODDING YOUR HEAD…..it’s in the bible that we wives should submit to our husbands. Now, I don’t agree with that 100% really but I love the way Joyce Myers puts things, which is how I’m expressing this next statement. It’s part of our job as a wife to fulfill our man’s needs whether that be emotionally and/or physically. UNFORTUNATELY sex does play a big role in a marriage. Men are pigs and they want it all the time. Give it to them. It relieves stress, it’s enjoyable, and they NEED it. Sad but true.
I’M NOT SAYING THAT MEN don’t have any responsibility either!!!!! So don’t get your panties in a wad. Just stressing that the majority of wives don’t do their part as much as they like to think.
Women tend to complain and mostly about stuff that doesn’t matter. They seem to always think they’re right too. I personally think it’s nature. Remember, you only live once. Try to have a little fun in your marriage, don’t gripe day and night, fix yourself up, play under the covers (or on top) a little more, and trying having small meaningful conversations with your man. They’re attention span is short so don’t get into those long drawed out ones;)
Okay…..I’m done…and ready to hear women yell at me. But before you get all mad, remember that this is MY OPINION, the opinion of a woman who has been married for well over 15yrs. I welcome your thoughts and opinions but please don’t be flat our rude or childish. I mean really, we’re all grownups.
And for the record, I do know about my cheating men. My mom was cheated from my real dad….she lives it with it always. She’s happily married now and has been for years but just that thought of what he did to her, lingers in the back of her head today. She’ll never forget or forgive.