Comments on: The Hole in My Heart http://acowboyswife.com/the-hole-in-my-heart/ Family, Photography, and Finds from a Professional Texas Mom Blogger Tue, 22 May 2012 10:51:51 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 By: 2010 Reflections and 2011 Expectations | A Cowboy's Wife http://acowboyswife.com/the-hole-in-my-heart/comment-page-1/#comment-89630 2010 Reflections and 2011 Expectations | A Cowboy's Wife Tue, 28 Dec 2010 00:24:20 +0000 http://acowboyswife.com/?p=3103#comment-89630 [...] opened up and shared with you, the hole in my heart.  It was extremely hard for me to share what I did as open as I did but since I had never ever [...] [...] opened up and shared with you, the hole in my heart.  It was extremely hard for me to share what I did as open as I did but since I had never ever [...]

]]> By: Janie http://acowboyswife.com/the-hole-in-my-heart/comment-page-1/#comment-54873 Janie Thu, 11 Feb 2010 08:37:58 +0000 http://acowboyswife.com/?p=3103#comment-54873 I too was caught offgaurd with my first loss and flushed. What a horrid feeling. I have since lost 4 more and am still trying although this past weekend I as soooo low having problems with bleeding due to meds they have put me on and feeling altogether defeated I considered quitting for the first time ever. Que Sera. Thanks for sharing, it really does help talking to others who have been there xx I too was caught offgaurd with my first loss and flushed. What a horrid feeling.

I have since lost 4 more and am still trying although this past weekend I as soooo low having problems with bleeding due to meds they have put me on and feeling altogether defeated I considered quitting for the first time ever.

Que Sera. Thanks for sharing, it really does help talking to others who have been there xx

]]> By: Lisa http://acowboyswife.com/the-hole-in-my-heart/comment-page-1/#comment-54338 Lisa Thu, 28 Jan 2010 18:04:14 +0000 http://acowboyswife.com/?p=3103#comment-54338 I've been there too. What I learned by talking about it was that so many women have been through it and nobody talks about. Thanks for letting us into your person life. .-= Lisa´s last blog ..<a href="http://lisascoupons.com/2010/01/stein-mart-printable-coupons/">Stein Mart Printable Coupons</a> =-. I’ve been there too. What I learned by talking about it was that so many women have been through it and nobody talks about. Thanks for letting us into your person life.
.-= Lisa´s last blog ..Stein Mart Printable Coupons =-.

]]> By: Victoria http://acowboyswife.com/the-hole-in-my-heart/comment-page-1/#comment-54030 Victoria Thu, 21 Jan 2010 05:50:04 +0000 http://acowboyswife.com/?p=3103#comment-54030 Dear Lori, thank you so much for sharing your intensely personal and deeply moving story. As someone who has had her sister lose a baby, I have seen firsthand how deeply it touches everyone inside. You have comforted a lot of people through these words and I will keep Arianne in my thoughts. Dear Lori, thank you so much for sharing your intensely personal and deeply moving story. As someone who has had her sister lose a baby, I have seen firsthand how deeply it touches everyone inside. You have comforted a lot of people through these words and I will keep Arianne in my thoughts.

]]> By: Elizabeth http://acowboyswife.com/the-hole-in-my-heart/comment-page-1/#comment-53954 Elizabeth Mon, 18 Jan 2010 01:42:54 +0000 http://acowboyswife.com/?p=3103#comment-53954 oh, sweetie. I'm sure it was hard to write this post. My first pregnancy was a blighted ovum that required a D&C, we hadn't been planning to get pregnant. But when we realized how devastated we were, how much we had been wanting that baby, we knew we really did want to be parents. I think about it whenever I read a story like yours. Sending you big virtual hugs. oh, sweetie. I’m sure it was hard to write this post. My first pregnancy was a blighted ovum that required a D&C, we hadn’t been planning to get pregnant. But when we realized how devastated we were, how much we had been wanting that baby, we knew we really did want to be parents. I think about it whenever I read a story like yours. Sending you big virtual hugs.

]]> By: Laurie http://acowboyswife.com/the-hole-in-my-heart/comment-page-1/#comment-53885 Laurie Thu, 14 Jan 2010 03:29:28 +0000 http://acowboyswife.com/?p=3103#comment-53885 Hugs to you Lori, and thank you for sharing. I had a 12 week loss and I too flushed what was left of my poor little angel. I didn't know what else to do. I hope this post offers you a little catharsis for the experience, I know it's helping me to read it. .-= Laurie´s last blog ..<a href="http://mobilemommy.me/2010/01/12/step-by-step-daycare-dropoff/">Step by Step Daycare Dropoff</a> =-. Hugs to you Lori, and thank you for sharing. I had a 12 week loss and I too flushed what was left of my poor little angel. I didn’t know what else to do. I hope this post offers you a little catharsis for the experience, I know it’s helping me to read it.
.-= Laurie´s last blog ..Step by Step Daycare Dropoff =-.

]]> By: Barb http://acowboyswife.com/the-hole-in-my-heart/comment-page-1/#comment-53876 Barb Thu, 14 Jan 2010 00:16:01 +0000 http://acowboyswife.com/?p=3103#comment-53876 What a hard post for you to write. I lost a baby in between the boys and had a D&C at 13 weeks. It is so hard and something you never really get over. Hugs. .-= Barb´s last blog ..<a href="http://elementaryspirits.com/2010/01/sample-pr-pitches-bloggers/">Sample PR Pitches to Bloggers</a> =-. What a hard post for you to write. I lost a baby in between the boys and had a D&C at 13 weeks. It is so hard and something you never really get over. Hugs.
.-= Barb´s last blog ..Sample PR Pitches to Bloggers =-.

]]> By: ClassyMommy http://acowboyswife.com/the-hole-in-my-heart/comment-page-1/#comment-53745 ClassyMommy Sun, 10 Jan 2010 19:40:12 +0000 http://acowboyswife.com/?p=3103#comment-53745 Lori - I am so sorry about this awful loss for you. I've also had a miscarriage and I understand. I remember after my 1st miscarriage (which would have been Baby #1) being heartbroken and my Mom telling me that saying sorry just doesn't help at all - as she too had been in my position many times. It is the loss of a hope and a dream, and those who have not lost it don't quite understand. Like you, I also flushed in my moment of panic and then was also horrified. And felt terrible not sure if it had been the right thing to do or not, but I just did it and it was already over. I can remember it so well. I was not nearly as pregnant as you - only 10 weeks but it was enough to know and see the hope that was my 1st child just like you. Thinking of you and our wonderful friend Arianne. Love, Col .-= ClassyMommy´s last blog ..<a href="http://www.classymommy.com/blog/2010/01/my-gingerbread-babies.html">My Gingerbread Babies</a> =-. Lori – I am so sorry about this awful loss for you. I’ve also had a miscarriage and I understand. I remember after my 1st miscarriage (which would have been Baby #1) being heartbroken and my Mom telling me that saying sorry just doesn’t help at all – as she too had been in my position many times. It is the loss of a hope and a dream, and those who have not lost it don’t quite understand. Like you, I also flushed in my moment of panic and then was also horrified. And felt terrible not sure if it had been the right thing to do or not, but I just did it and it was already over. I can remember it so well. I was not nearly as pregnant as you – only 10 weeks but it was enough to know and see the hope that was my 1st child just like you. Thinking of you and our wonderful friend Arianne. Love, Col
.-= ClassyMommy´s last blog ..My Gingerbread Babies =-.

]]> By: Sommer-Green and Clean Mom http://acowboyswife.com/the-hole-in-my-heart/comment-page-1/#comment-53720 Sommer-Green and Clean Mom Sat, 09 Jan 2010 21:43:42 +0000 http://acowboyswife.com/?p=3103#comment-53720 Lori, I am so sorry for your loss and Arianne. It's good to share those feelings and sometimes they come out when we least expect it. We had a baby loss conversation on Twitter for #ecowed a few weeks back with Earth Mama Angel Baby and people were talking about this hole in their heart for the first time, years later with raw emotions. I do not represent Earth Mama Angel Baby but I have worked with them and they have a great site you might consider visiting: Healing Hearts Baby Loss http://ow.ly/DyFV Sommer .-= Sommer-Green and Clean Mom´s last blog ..<a href="http://greenandcleanmom.org/ninja-master-prep-review/">Food Prep BPA Free Style: Ninja Master Prep Review</a> =-. Lori, I am so sorry for your loss and Arianne. It’s good to share those feelings and sometimes they come out when we least expect it. We had a baby loss conversation on Twitter for #ecowed a few weeks back with Earth Mama Angel Baby and people were talking about this hole in their heart for the first time, years later with raw emotions. I do not represent Earth Mama Angel Baby but I have worked with them and they have a great site you might consider visiting: Healing Hearts Baby Loss http://ow.ly/DyFV

Sommer
.-= Sommer-Green and Clean Mom´s last blog ..Food Prep BPA Free Style: Ninja Master Prep Review =-.

]]> By: Shirley Durko http://acowboyswife.com/the-hole-in-my-heart/comment-page-1/#comment-53713 Shirley Durko Sat, 09 Jan 2010 17:08:50 +0000 http://acowboyswife.com/?p=3103#comment-53713 Dear Lori, I know the feeling of a hole in my heart as well. We lost our oldest son two years ago. He was forty four years old and died suddenly of a heart attack. That hole will never heal but God has sent so many things to comfort me. I can not imagine your and Arianne's loss because you never got to know those precious children. I can not offer you an explanation of why this happens. It is a painful, horrible thing. Because satan is strong he can tell you things that are not true. My only advice is to lean on God, ask Him to send you comfort. Feel His arms around you and watch for angels that appear in some form and feel His comfort. I'm so glad that you have been so blessed to have 3 wonderful children and know that they will give you many joys. My love and prayers to all of you who have lost children. It doesn't matter how "old" the child is, it still leaves a hole in your heart. Dear Lori, I know the feeling of a hole in my heart as well. We lost our oldest son two years ago. He was forty four years old and died suddenly of a heart attack. That hole will never heal but God has sent so many things to comfort me. I can not imagine your and Arianne’s loss because you never got to know those precious children. I can not offer you an explanation of why this happens. It is a painful, horrible thing. Because satan is strong he can tell you things that are not true. My only advice is to lean on God, ask Him to send you comfort. Feel His arms around you and watch for angels that appear in some form and feel His comfort. I’m so glad that you have been so blessed to have 3 wonderful children and know that they will give you many joys. My love and prayers to all of you who have lost children. It doesn’t matter how “old” the child is, it still leaves a hole in your heart.

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