Okay ladies, we’ve all gone through the bedroom slumps but there are things we can do to get a rise out of our man. With Valentine’s Day approaching, there is no better time to use our assets and seduce our lover!
WARNING: Please try this at home. You may experience orgasmic sensations and feelings of bliss but don’t be alarmed. They are all natural symptoms and will not harm you unless you want it to;)
- SEXY LINGERIE~Depending on what your man likes, you could go with a t-shirt with slits in the side or the hoochie-mama look. Most men prefer to see less and have more to take off. Whatever you choose, please make sure to shave your legs!
- SCENT~Believe it or not, 89% of men admitted the scent of a woman turns them on. Not sure if that’s a fragrant scent or the actual “woman” scent.
- BE CONFIDENT~Don’t act shy or embarrassed. This is an instant turn off to men. Freshen yourself up, get a makeover before you plan your seduction, and stick your chest out a bit;)
- SIGNS~Send him little signs that your interested. Stare at him with a grin (not a joker’s face), run your fingers through his hair (if he has any), and slowly kiss his neck & walk away.
- HARD TO GET~Show interest and then ignore him. Tease, tease, tease. He’ll be after you all day long.
- DANCING~No, not stripper pole type….well, maybe:) I mean erotic dancing. Let me tell you ladies, your men will go nuts over this. Slow, sensual moves will drive him crazy! Please refrain from “hammer time” and the “cabbage patch”.
Now go light that fire and heat things up!






Lori is the Owner and Founder of four blogs, a 4 year Problogger, a social media influencer, and tech nerd at heart. She's been married 18+ years and has 3 handsome boys; Tyler 17, Toby, 14, and Truett 4. 




Another thing to do is just be open and honest with your man about what drives you crazy. He’ll be happy to oblige! Communication ladies!
Great advice!
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Thanks for the post.
Being a bisexual female, I have just as tough of a time as you guys do when it comes to picking up women. But you hardly ever see any tips directed toward us ladies.
So I just take what is out there for guys & adapt it to my situation.